Is Twitter Heading Down The Myspace Road?
// February 3rd, 2009 // 17 Comments » // Technology

You guys know I love Twitter… as a matter of fact, most of you think I live on Facebook because my Twitter account is connected to my Facebook status updates. BUT, I’ve recently started feeling a bit the same about Twitter as I did when I was ready to abandon Myspace. Why? What has happened? Here’s my thoughts on the future of Twitter, I may be way off but hear me out!
Twitter is about connecting and building community. Myspace was about finding friends and building community as well (before it became a booty call station). However, Myspace became a game about who had the most friends. I’m guilty… I had 1800+ friends and really only talked/connected with a hundred or so… I was overwhelmed with trying to keep up with them all and usually missed the “real” friends because of the noise of unknown “friends”. It wasn’t long after reaching that 1800+ mark that I “cleaned” house and narrowed my connections back down to people that I knew or people that I had common interests with. Even so, I eventually looked at Myspace as a chore- and have since moved on to Facebook. The whole Facebook vs. Myspace saga is another post, I just choose Facebook over Myspace.
So how do I see Twitter as another Myspace? The “followers” war. Once again, I’ve played this game too. I started following anyone who followed me even if I had nothing in common with them. As the numbers started to grow I slowly disconnected with the people that I had truly connected with. Then I started seeing people post stuff like “If you don’t follow me back, you will be dropped… Fair is Fair!”. That’s not a joke.
First off people, get a clue. A follower doesn’t mean a friend- friendships are built by talking and getting to know one another. There are many folks that I respond too and converse with but don’t follow and the same with other folks who respond to me. Why do I follow people who’s sole goal is to gain followers then 90% of their tweets are the song they are listening to. Really? Really? Ego trips are quickly taking over Twitter… one guy is following 12,000+ people and he has 11,000+ followers, yet he doesn’t talk with his followers rather he spouts out information and 9 times out of 10 it’s a retweet of someone else that everyone is already following. I’m seeing this more and more daily which is why I’ve realized that soon we are all going to get tired of the game and look for the next manageable communication/media breakthrough.
This is how I relate Twitter to Myspace… Myspace and Facebook are basically the same idea, Facebook was executed better by giving the user more control over their connections and privacy… the interface was also very user friendly. Twitter is basically an open & easy interface place to connect. However with mass followers it gets hard to manage (I say hard to manage, I’m talking about the average user- see below to see how I manage Twitter sanely!!!)
I know I’m stepping on some of the toes of the “Twitter Elite”. If it feels like I’m stepping on your toes, I’m sorry but I just don’t think you get the idea of building community- whether online or off. Give me some info, give me a reason to be your “follower”!
This applies to me as well. I try to be myself on Twitter, I post through out the day with stuff I’m working on, music I like, food I love, interesting links I find, and respond to those I may be able to help. If I’m not offering you anything then unfollow me… it’s ok… I’m not going to be offended!!!
I still love Twitter but mainly because I’ve found a way to manage it. If you are overwhelmed with Twitter or feel like you are missing conversations then I encourage you to check out Tweetdeck. Tweetdeck let’s you create groups… I have the following groups setup: local/real friends, music related friends, marketing/interactive friends, then the big group of “All”.
I have hope for Twitter but we’ve got to get a grip on the egos and the serial followers to create a great and useful community. Who’s on board?




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